POSITIVE APPROACH
Finally, while of course you must always correct your daughter’s behavior when it’s necessary, you could take extra trouble to do it in a positive way ("try this" rather than "don’t do that"), and to avoid humiliating her.
Two useful measures of this: If you say "no" words more often than you say "yes" words, your discipline probably isn’t coming across as positive.
(An excerpt from an article by Penelope Leach, a child psychologist and mother of two, is the author of the best-selling books YOUR BABY AND CHILD: FROM BIRTH TO AGE FIVE and YOUR GROWING CHILD: FROM BABYHOOD THROUGH ADOLESCENCE)