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BY
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London: Printed by Smyth & Yerworth, Holborn Buildings,
Holborn, E.C.
(preface)
Compelled in great measure to desist for a season from public speaking
by bodily infirmity, I seize the opportunity to repeat on paper what I have
been privileged to express in (to me) brighter days.
I pray that I may thus be allowed to continue my testimony against the
attempt, now so prevalent, to serve both God and mammon, and to warn and
teach everyone to flee from the wrath to come by avoiding every sin and the
very appearance of evil, and by devoting themselves without reserve to the
service of God and the salvation of the world; and I trust that He who has
given to me these thoughts and words may restore to me the power to speak
again and to speak more boldly still.
CATHERINE BOOTH.
3, GORE ROAD, LONDON, E.
CHRISTMAS, 1878.
(contents)
I presume that all here are agreed as to the responsibility devolving on
parents to give some sort of training to their children. There
is not a mother here who would think it right to leave her child to grow up
without discipline or training of some kind! Then the question for us to
consider is, what sort
of training does God, and our duty to our children, require from us? In order to get at the answer to this question the first important matter for a parent to settle in her own mind is this: To whom does this child belong? IS IT MINE, OR IS IT THE LORD'S? Surely, this question should not need any discussion, at least by Christian parents! For do we not recognise, even before they are born, that they are peculiarly and exclusively a heritage from the Lord; and when they came into the world, the first effort we put forth was to hold them up and offer them to Him? And again, in our baptismal vows we acknowledged that they belonged to Him, and promised to train them for His glory. Now the keeping of this one fact before the mind of a mother will be the best guiding principle in training, and it is because Christian parents so often forget whose their children are, that they make such mistakes in training them. I say then to you mothers here, settle it in your minds that your child belongs absolutely to God and not to you--that you are only stewards for God, holding your children to nurse them and train them for Him.
This responsibility arises--1st. Out of the command and ordination
of God. Both under the old and new dispensations, the Lord has, in the most
emphatic and solemn manner, laid the obligation on parents to train their
children for Him; He commands it, to whom both parents and
children exclusively belong.
Secondly--This responsibility arises out of the nature of the
relationship between parent and child. The parent is in the most complete
sense the owner, the guardian, the director, and controller of the child;
its utter helplessness and ignorance when it first comes into the world
throws it completely under the power of, and at the discretion of, its
parents. The poor little infant has no choice but to be led as its parents
lead it--no option but to be directed, trained, and developed
physically, mentally, and spiritually as its parents
develop it; and it is during these
early stages of helplessness and ignorance that the
impetus is generally given to its future life. There is an old adage that "They who rock the cradle rule the world," and they certainly do; but I am afraid that the world has been very badly ruled, just because those who rock the cradle have not known how to train the child. Napoleon once said, that the "great want of France was mothers," and I am afraid we may say to a greater extent than ever before in our history, that the great want of England is mothers--right-minded, able, competent, Christian mothers, who realize their responsibility to God and to their children, and who are resolved at all costs and sacrifices to discharge it.
Thirdly--This responsibility arises out of our ability
for the task. We are able to train our children in the way
they should go, or God would not have enjoined it upon us. He required
every father and mother in Israel to train their children for Him--He
admitted of no exception, no excuse; and in the New Testament it is assumed
as a first duty with believers to train up their children "in the
nurture and admonition of the Lord." The training God requires is a
moral training--THE INSPIRING OF THE CHILD WITH THE LOVE OF GOODNESS,
TRUTH, AND RIGHTEOUSNESS, and leading him to its practice and exercise in
all the duties and emergencies of life.
Now, any parent, however poor, unlearned, or occupied, can do this if
only she has the grace of God in her heart, and will take the TROUBLE.
Training a child in the way he should go does not necessarily imply a
scholastic training. All parents have not the power to educate their
children, nor to do much for them temporally; they cannot put them in a
position to get much of this world's goods, but these things are not
included in right training. A child may be trained for the highest moral
and spiritual development without these; and, where there is natural
ability, for the highest mental development also. This is abundantly
established in the histories of some of our great men. We know what kind of
homes some
of them were trained in, what humble parentage some of them had, what little learning they had in their early days, but, nevertheless, they were trained in the way they should go, and having been set going in the right path, when they came to mature years they did not fail to help themselves. No poor parent need be discouraged because he cannot educate his children in the popular sense.
God does not require of us more than we can do, and if we train our
children, as far as is possible to us, in the way they should go, they will
then go in that way for themselves; God's providence and spirit and
their own bias will guide them on and on, as it has done many a son of poor
parents, to prosperity, usefulness, and honour in this world, as well as to
eternal glory in the next.
But, Fourthly--This responsibility is increased by the
opportunity which parents possess, and especially mothers, to
train their children. Being thrown constantly with them, having them
continually under our eye by night and by day, when no one else is there,
being acquainted with all their peculiarities of disposition, and entering
into all their joys and sorrows, what splendid opportunities occur daily
for pruning, correcting, inspiring, leading and encouraging them as the
case may require.
Then, Fifthly--What an awful responsibility arises out of the
influence which God has given us over our children. This
influence is IRRESISTIBLE until parents by their own injudicious conduct
fritter it away. A little child who has been rightly trained has unbounded,
unquestioning confidence in its parents; what father or mother says, is to
it, an end of all controversy, it never seeks for further proof. This
influence wisely used will never wear out, but will spread like an
atmosphere around the child's moral nature, moulding and fashioning
all his future life. I sometimes meet with parents who tell me that at the
age of sixteen or seventeen,
their children have become quite unmanageable, and that they have lost all
their
influence over them. I cannot tell you which I pity most, such children, or such parents. One of the worst signs of our times is the little respect which children seem to have for their parents. There are numbers of boys and girls of from twelve to seventeen years of age, over whom their parents have little or no control. But how has this come to pass? Did these children leap all at once from the restraints and barriers of parental affection and authority? Oh no, it has been the result of the imperceptible growth of years of insubordination and want of proper discipline--the gradual loss of parental influence until they have thrown it off altogether, and resolved to do as they pleased. Hence the terrible exhibitions we have of youthful depravity, lawlessness, and rebellion.
Well, I think I hear some mother say: I see, I feel my
responsibility, and I long to train my children in the way they should go,
but
How am I to do it?
First let us look at the meaning of the word Train. It does not mean
merely to teach. Some parents seem to have the notion that all
they have to do in training their children aright is to teach
them; so they cram them with religious sentiment and truth, making
them commit to memory the Catechism, large portions of Scripture, a great
many hymns, and so on. All very good as far as it goes, but which may all
be done without a single stroke of real training such as God requires, and
such as the hearts of our children need. Nay, this mere teaching, informing
the head without interesting or influencing the heart, frequently drives
children off from God and goodness, and makes them hate,
instead of love, everything connected with religion. In the early part of
my married life, when my dear husband was travelling very much from place
to place, I was frequently thrown into the houses of leading families in
churches for three or four weeks at a time, and I used to say to myself,
"How is it that these children seem frequently to have a more
inveterate dislike for religion and religious things, than the children of
worldly people who make no profession"? Subsequent observation and experience has shown me the reason. It is because such parents inform the head without training the heart. They teach what they neither practise themselves nor take the trouble to see that their children practise, and the children see through the hollow sham, and learn to despise both their parents and their religion. Mother, if you want to TRAIN your child you must practise what you teach, and you must SHOW HIM how to practise it also, and you must, at all costs of trouble and care, see that he DOES it.
Suppose, by way of illustration, that you have a vine, and that this
vine is endowed with reason, and will, and moral sense. You say to your
vine-dresser, "Now, I want that vine
trained"--i.e., made to
grow in a particular way, so that it may bear the largest amount of fruit
possible to it. Suppose your vine-dresser goes to your vine, every
morning, and says to it, "Now, you must let that branch grow in this
direction, and that branch grow in another; you are not to put forth too
many shoots here, nor too many tendrils there; you must not waste your sap
in too many leaves;" and having told it what to do and how to grow,
he shuts it up and leaves it to itself. This is precisely the way many good
people act towards their children. But, lo! the vine grows as it likes;
nature is too strong for mere theory; words will not curb its exuberance,
nor check its waywardness. Your vine-dresser must do something more
effectual than talking. He must nail that branch where he wishes it to
grow; he must cut away what he sees to be superfluous; he must lop, and
prune, and dress it, if it is to be trained for beauty and for
fruitfulness. And just so, mother, if you want your child to be trained for
God and righteousness; you must prune, and curb, and propel, and lead it in
the way in which it should go. But some mother says, "What a deal of
trouble!" Ah, that is just why many parents fail; they are afraid of
trouble; but, as Mrs. Stowe says, "If you will not take the trouble
to
train Charlie when he is a little boy, he will give you a great deal more trouble when he is a big one." Many a foolish mother, to spare herself trouble, has left her children to themselves, and "a child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame!" Many parents teach their children in theory the right way, but by their negligence and indifference, train them in just the opposite. See that mother seated at some important piece of work which she is anxious to finish; her three little children are playing around her--one with his picture-book, another with his horse and cart, and baby with her doll. It is Monday afternoon, and only yesterday she was giving those children a lesson on the importance of love and good-will amongst themselves; that was the teaching, now comes the training. Presently Charlie gets tired of his pictures, and, without asking permission, takes the horse and cart from his younger brother, whereupon there is a scream, and presently a fight. Instead of laying aside her work, restoring the rightful property, explaining to Charlie that it is unjust and unkind to take his brother's toys, and to the younger one that he should rather suffer wrong than scream and fight, she goes on with her work, telling Charlie that he is a very naughty boy, and making the very common remark that she thinks there never were such troublesome children as hers! Now, who cannot see the different effect it would have had on these children if that mother had taken the trouble to make them realize and confess their fault, and voluntarily exchange the kiss of reconciliation and brotherly affection? What if it had taken half an hour of her precious time, would not the gain be greater than that which would accrue from any other occupation, however important? Mothers, if you want your children to walk in the way they should go, you must not only teach, you must be at the trouble to TRAIN.
But, Secondly, HOW IS THIS TRAINING TO BE
GIVEN?
The first and most important point is to secure OBEDIENCE. Obedience to
properly constituted authority is the foundation
of all moral excellence, not only in childhood, but all the way through life. And the secret of a great deal of the lawlessness of these times, both towards God and man, is, that when children, these people were never taught to submit to the authority of their parents; and now you may convince them ever so clearly that it is their duty, and would be their happiness, to submit to God, but their unrestrained, unsubdued wills have never been accustomed to submit to anybody, and it is like beginning to break in a wild horse in old age. Well may the Prophet enquire, "Can the Ethiopian change his skin, or the leopard his spots? Then may ye also do good that are accustomed to do evil." God has laid it on parents to begin the work of bringing the will into subjection in childhood; and to help us in doing it, He has put in all children a tendency to obey. Watch any young child, and you will find that, as a rule, his instincts lead him to submit; insubordination is the exception, until this tendency has been trifled with by those who have the care of him. Now how important it is, in right training, to take advantage of this tendency to obedience, and not on any account allow it to be weakened by encouraging exceptional rebellion! In order to do this, you must begin EARLY ENOUGH. This is where multitudes of mothers miss their mark; they begin too late. The great majority of children are ruined for the formation of character before they are five years old by the foolish indulgence of mothers.
I am sometimes asked, "What do you consider the secret of
successful training"? I answer,
"BEGINNING SOON ENOUGH--not
letting Satan get the advantage of us at the start." That is the
secret of success. "Well, but," mothers say, "it is so
hard to chastise an infant." There is seldom need for chastisement
where mothers begin early and wisely. There is a way of speaking to and
handling an infant compatible with the utmost love and tenderness, which
teaches it that mother is not to be trifled with; that, although she loves
and caresses, she is to be obeyed, and will be obeyed, and a child that is
trained in this way
will not, as a rule, attempt to resist. In exceptional cases it may be tempted to become obstreperous, and then the mother must show her authority. Take an illustration. We will suppose that your son of six months old is in a fractious mood, and indisposed to take his morning nap; his nurse has put him in his cot and struggled with him till she is tired, and the child is tired too; at last you come and take the baby, after he has been rolling and tumbling about, and lay him down with a firm hand, saying with a firm voice, "Baby must lie still and go to sleep," putting your hand on him at the same time to prevent his rising in the cot or turning over after you have spoken. Now, if this child for the previous three months has been trained in this line, if this is not the beginning, he will, as a natural consequence, lie still and go to sleep; but if he has not been accustomed to this kind of handling, he will perhaps become boisterous and resist you; if so, you must persevere. You must on no account give up; no, not if you stop till night. If he conquers you this time he will try harder next, and it will get more and more difficult. Almost all mothers mistake here; they give up because they will not inflict on themselves the pain of a struggle, forgetting that defeat now only ensures endless battles in the future.
Remember you MUST conquer in the
FIRST battle, whatever it may be about, or
you are undone. "Ah, but what time and patience this requires!"
Yes, but it is only for once or twice; and what is that compared with the
time and toil of conquering further on? But you say, "It is so
hard." Not half so hard as the other way; for when the child finds
that mother is not to be got over, he will yield as a matter of course. I
have proved it, I think, with some as strong-willed children as ever
came into the world. I conquered them at six and ten months old, and seldom
had to contend with any direct opposition after. I have a son who is now
preaching the Gospel, and a great joy to my heart. The only decided battle
I ever fought with him was at ten months old. I do not say that he never
disobeyed me afterwards--he sometimes forgot himself and was disobedient--but I do say that I never remember him setting his will in direct antagonism to mine in all the succeeding years of his childhood. It was a painful struggle--that first contest, but has not the result paid for it a thousand thousand times? Oh, mothers, if you love your children, begin early to exact obedience. If chastisement be necessary, inflict it; and for every pang you suffer, every tear you shed, you shall reap comfort, honour, and glory. But, perhaps, there are some mothers who are saying, "Ah, I see it now; but it is too late; my children are too old." I say: better late than never. Begin and do all you can. Perhaps you can never undo ALL the mischief, but you may a part of it. Call your children around you; confess your past unfaithfulness in your dealings with them, fall on your knees before the Lord with them, and tell Him of your failure to train them for Him, and ask His help to enable you to do it in the future. When you rise from your knees tell your children in the most solemn manner that you see your mistake, and feel how awful it would be, if they were to be lost through your fault, and that from this hour you are going to be obeyed in everything. Begin at once to exact obedience. Be judicious and forbearing, remembering that your children's habits of disobedience are the result of your own folly, and deal as gently as the case will permit; but at all costs secure obedience, and never more allow your commands to be trifled with. Now is your only chance; a few more years, and your child is undone.
Do not be afraid to use your authority. One would think, to
hear some parents talk of their relations with their children, that they
did not possess an iota of power over them. All they dare to
do, seems to be to reason, to persuade, to coax. I have frequently heard
mothers using all manner of persuasion instead of exerting the authority
which God has given for the safeguard and guidance of their poor children.
They give their commands in such a voice as leaves it optional whether the
child shall
obey them or not, and this he understands very well; there is no command, no firmness, no decision, no authority, and the child knows it by its instincts just as an animal would. Men are much wiser in breaking in and training their horses than their sons, hence they generally get much better served by the former than the latter!
What has God given you authority for, if He did not intend you to use
it--if your child can do as well without it? He has sent your child to
you to be guided and restrained by your authority, as much as
to be inspired and encouraged by your love. How will you answer for the
neglect or abuse of this wonderful power? You recollect the fearful
punishment that came upon Eli, one of the most terrible strokes of
vengeance recorded in the whole Bible. What was it for? Not for using
profane language before his children, not for training them in
unrighteousness or immorality, for he was a good and righteous man, but
"because he restrained them not:" that means he did not
use his authority on the side of God and righteousness. Doubtless, this had
been his failing all the way through; he had indulged his sons in their own
way, until at last they set both him and his God at open defiance. Alas!
this has been the case with millions since his day: having sown the
wind they reaped the whirlwind. What a contrast the conduct and fate of Eli
present in this respect to the conduct of Abraham! "I know
him," said Jehovah, "that he will command his
children and his household after him." Not merely remonstrate,
persuade, and threaten, as Eli did, but
"command"--he will use his authority on My
side; and, as a consequence, the Lord promised that "they should keep
the way of the Lord, to do justice and judgment." Parents, if you
fulfil your part of the covenant, never fear but that God will perform His.
Only you train your children truly for Him, and He will charge
Himself with their future; but do not expect, if you neglect
your sacred trust, or abuse it by training them in the nurture and
admonition of the world and the devil, that God will work a
miracle to convert them when they come to mature years, because you cry and pray and ask Him to do so. He makes no such promise; and we see, alas! in the experience of multitudes of sorrowing parents, that He does not hold Himself bound to work for the salvation of their children on any such conditions.
Another important point in training a child in the way he should go is
to train it in the practice of TRUTH and
INTEGRITY. Human nature is said to go
"astray from the birth--speaking lies;" and, doubtless,
untruthfulness is one of the most easily besetting and prevalent sins of
our race. To counteract this tendency, and to establish the soul in habits
of truth and sincerity, must be one of the first objects of right training.
In order to do this, parents should beware of palliating or excusing the
tendency to falsehood in their children. In nothing have I been more amazed
than in this. I have actually seen mothers smile at, and almost extol the
little artifices of their children in their attempts to deceive them and to
hide some childish delinquency. No wonder that such parents fail to inspire
their off-spring with that wholesome dread of falseness which is one
of the greatest safeguards to virtue in after-life.
her to come again, and assuring her that her visit has given you very great
pleasure. What more effectual lesson could you give your wondering little
one in deception and double-dealing than this?
investigation, spoil the enjoyment of the party, and expose your child as a
cheat before them! Certainly it would be very unpleasant, and
to a mother who is more concerned about her son appearing to
be a cheat than she is about his being one the result would
not be worth the fuss; but, to a mother who esteems the honour and
integrity of her boy more than all appearances or opinions in the world,
such an opportunity of correcting his fault and fortifying him against
future temptation is more than the breaking up of a dozen parties. Oh, how
many a promising child has been ruined because his mother would not endure
the pain and trouble of an investigation? "He that covereth his sins
shall not prosper." Neither does such a course win the good opinion
of others. The children go away feeling that your son is a cheat just the
same; and, what is worse, feeling that you are a party to his
wickedness.
drag it out, even though it should bring for the time exposure and
disgrace. This may prove a useful chastisement, and a warning in the
future. Anything is preferable to sin covered up, and consequently
encouraged. Resolve that you will make your child truthful and sincere, if
you can do it no other way, from very despair of being able to hide
anything from you. God acts on this principle with adults: why should
not we with our children? "Be sure your sin will find you
out."
of this covenant relation, and bring up their children under the idea that
they must needs live in sin till they come to be fifteen or sixteen years
old, and then they hope God will convert them in the same marvellous and
sudden manner in which drunkards and profligates are converted. Now, I am
as firm a believer in conversion as any one can be; and I also believe that
the children of believers need to be converted as much as others, but I say
this is not the way to teach our children to expect it. What is conversion
but the renewal of the mind by the Holy Ghost through faith in a crucified
Saviour? And as there are "diversities of operations by the same
spirit," why may not the minds of children be renewed very early? Why
may they not be led to choose Christ and His yoke at seven or eight years
old as well as at seventeen? If the will of a child be sincerely yielded to
God, cannot the blessed spirit as easily and as effectually renew and
actuate its heart and affections as those of an adult? And does not Jesus
say "SUFFER the little ones to come
unto Me"? Alas! how many Christian parents unwittingly forbid
them?
is good in them; and secondly, the reproof and caution against evil; and
thirdly, instruction in righteousness. If parents would only take the
Lord's way, they would see their sons and their daughters taking
their places in the temple of the Lord, as their natural and abiding home.
Wisely and faithfully trained up for God, they would say, when solicited to
go away, "To whom should we go"? "Ah," says some
mother, "It is very easy to talk, but you don't know the
natural antipathy which my children have to religion. I am sure I have
tried to teach them the right way, and to make them love that which is
good, but, so far, I see very little result of my labours." Perhaps,
my friend, the failure has been in that you have taught but
have not trained. You have told them the way to take, but have not
led them in it. If you are to succeed you must do both, and
that continually.
the seven;" but he knows that in his home it is the dullest day of
the week, and that the whole household are relieved when it is passed and
they are able to be back at this world's employments and
enjoyments.
adjourn to the nursery, where frequently they would go through the whole
service again, the eldest being the preacher. When baby was asleep their
nurse would read interesting infantile stories to the elder ones, or teach
them suitable bits of poetry by letting them all repeat it together after
her. Thus the Sabbath was made a day of pleasure as well as of instruction
and improvement. I never allowed my children to attend public services till
they were old enough to take some interest in them. We had no mission
services then, or they would have been able to understand, and enter into a
great part of them, but I deemed it an evil to make a child sit still for
an hour-and-a-half, dangling its legs on a high seat,
listening to what it could neither understand nor appreciate, for alas,
there is little in the ordinary services of our day to interest or profit
children, and I am satisfied that a great deal of the distaste for
religious services so common amongst them has been engendered in this way.
My experience has been that my children have come so highly to appreciate
the privilege of attending service, that a promise of it during the week
would insure extra good behaviour and diligence.
their daily life. It is to be feared that, as with adults so with children,
a deal of so-called teaching is right away above their heads,
dealing with abstract truths and far-off illustrations, instead of
coming down to such every-day matters as obedience to parents and
teachers; the learning of their lessons; their treatment of brothers,
sisters, and servants; their companionships; their amusements; the spending
and giving of their pocket-money; their dealings with the poor;
their treatment of animals--in short, everything embraced in their
daily life. The great end of Christian training is to lead children to
realize the fact that they BELONG TO GOD, and
are under a solemn obligation to do everything in a way which they think
will please Him. Parents cannot begin too early, nor labour too
continuously, to keep this fact before the minds of their children. In the
family devotion in the morning, the father or mother, or whoever conducts
it, should bring the children specially before the Lord, asking Him
"to give them grace this day, to be obedient to those who have the
care of them. To be diligent at their lessons, so that they many lay in
knowledge, which shall make them useful to their
fellow-creatures, and enable them to do something for God and
souls, if He sees fit to spare them."
ciples, customs, and ambitions of this world. Surely "God is not
mocked, for as they sow to the flesh, they of the flesh reap
corruption;" and, alas! their poor children's
SOULS are sacrificed in the bargain.
direction, and this frequently, not because money is scarce, but simply
because it cannot be parted with!
family, and a becoming anxiety on the part of the parents, worthily to
entertain their guest, but a difficulty presents itself. The General is not
an abstainer, he has always been accustomed to his wine and spirits.
"What shall we do," says the mother, "he will think it
inhospitable and mean to deny him his favourite beverage"?
"Well, yes," says the father, "I don't see how we
can do it in this instance; you see he is an old man, and
would not appreciate our views or our motives. I fear we shall have to
order a little wine for him. I don't like to bring it in sight of the
children, but we must explain the circumstances to them, and we will hope
no harm will come of it." These parents sacrifice principle to
expediency, and admit the mocker to their family circle. Can they be
surprised if one of their sons turns out a drunkard? "Ah!" said
a broken-hearted father once to my husband--"I trained my
boy in abstinence principles, but I did not keep him out of the society of
those who thought there was no harm in moderate drinking, and now he is an
outcast and an alien whom I cannot allow to cross my threshold--he has
killed his mother, and will bring down my grey hairs with sorrow to the
grave." "Have no fellowship with the unfruitful works--or
instruments of darkness--evil." "Wine is a mocker."
WINE ITSELF, not the abuse of it. Here is the
secret why so many thousands of the fair and promising fall by it.
Christian parents, fear it as you would the bite of a serpent, and as you
value the souls of your children keep it out of their very sight.
in the attempt to leap the chasm which bars his upward course, many a son
falls headlong through the abyss of disappointed ambition, down to
damnation, and many a daughter to that path, the steps of which "take
hold on Hell." Ah, but some succeed! Yes, and what reward do the
parents often get? The son and daughter, whom they toiled and struggled so
hard to push up, get so high they can scarcely see the poor, neglected
parents down below, and often leave them to die with a broken heart. Truly
"Godliness with contentment is--Great Gain."
harvest of crime and misery which their consumption has entailed on us as a
nation, has opened the eyes of almost every thinking and patriotic mind to
the fact that the drink, not the abuse of it, but the drink itself, is an
evil thing, in very truth a "mocker," the product of Satanic
art and malice, to be rejected and eschewed by all who have any regard for
their own or their neighbour's well-being. We might adduce
overwhelming evidence that strong drink is the natural ally of all
wickedness. Unquestionable statistics have been produced which show that
its stimulus is essential to the plotting and commission of almost every
kind of villainy. The gambler seeks it to aid him in the craft and cunning
by which he lures his victim on to financial ruin. The seducer has recourse
to its deceptive power to pave the way for his cruel licentiousness. The
burglar braces his courage and hardens his conscience by its exhilarating
fumes. The harlot drowns in the intoxicating cup her sense of shame, and
from it gathers strength to trample out the deepest, tenderest instincts of
womanhood. The murderer is powerless to strike the fatal blow till maddened
by its infernal stimulus. In short, all classes and sizes of criminals
unite to testify, "By the influence of drink we are what we
are," and missionaries, Bible-women, chaplains, jailors,
magistrates, and judges, say, "Amen" to their testimony.
skill of their great general. Such folly must always be followed by failure
and defeat. Doubtless one secret of the church's failure in nearly
all aggressive measures has been her ignoring the power of this great
adversary. Why, even heathen chiefs, the heads of savage tribes, have sent
us word that "it is of no use to send them the Bible, if at the same
time we send them strong drink." Alas! that Christians have been so
slow to learn the power of this mitrailleuse of hell, but, thank God, some
of them are beginning to appreciate it at last, and these are crying, What
is to be done? How shall we deal with the drink? We answer, in the name of
Christ and humanity, deal with it as you do with all other
Satan-invented, Christ-dishonouring, soul-ruining
abominations. Wash your hands of it at once, and for ever! And give a
united and straightforward testimony to the world that you consider it an
enemy of all righteousness and the legitimate offspring of Satan!
At every step the drink difficulty meets them. They can no longer ignore
it, it must be met and grappled with. In America, the importance of this
question in its bearing on Christianity has been so fully recognised, that
almost every Christian minister has become an abstainer; and I venture to
affirm, that the religious instinct of Christians in both countries has
pronounced this action to be consistent and praiseworthy. If consistent and
praiseworthy in America, would it not be equally so in England? God grant
that such may soon be the case here!
regard them. We are satisfied that if the Gospel is to make any great
advance on the masses of this country, those who seek to propagate it must
abandon the use of drink. As Dr. Guthrie remarks, in his preface to
"Scriptural Claims of Teetotalism," "I am astonished that
so many ministers of the Gospel and Christian people can turn aside from
the fight as they do. When I laboured among the lower, and, indeed, lowest
classes of society in this city, I was met at every corner by the demon of
drink. I found it utterly useless to attempt to evangelise the heathen and
raise the lapsed masses without the aid of total abstinence. With all my
trust in the promises of God, and blessings of the Holy Spirit, I felt that
I must be able to say to the people not 'Forward,' but
'Follow.' This first induced me to become an abstainer; and I
am convinced that it is the duty of every man, who would do his utmost for
the glory of God and the good of his fellow-creatures, to
discountenance by his example the use of intoxicating
stimulants."
not the felt inconsistency of trying to save the drunkard while patronising
the drink, had something to do with this anomaly? It is a significant fact,
that we rarely find any who are not abstainers who care for the drunkard.
We admit, however, and believe, that the pioneering work to be done in
order to reach the drunkard, and bring him under the influence of the
Gospel, ought to be done by Christians; but until Christian ministers and
people will forego their own indulgence, and undertake the labour of
hunting down the drunkard, we say, for pity's sake, let those do it
who will, for any man has a better chance of salvation sober than drunk,
under any circumstances.
We know of numbers who have thus been won to Christ and happiness, and
doubtless there will be many more when the Church learns better to adapt
her measures and services to the
capacities and necessities of this class of hearers.
worse than the first. When a man is brought under the influence of the
Spirit, to see himself a sinner, and to embrace the Saviour, he should be
taught that he has only just entered on his heavenward course, and in order
that he may so run as to obtain, he must cast aside every weight, keep his
body under, watch and pray, and keep out of temptation. In the case of
those who have been addicted to intemperance, all but universal experience
proves that there is absolutely no hope of their "standing
fast" without the entire abandonment of the drink. Our Lord taught
His disciples to pray to be kept out of temptation; and again and again we
are warned and enjoined to keep ourselves out, and on this condition all
His promises of grace and deliverance are suspended. God has nowhere
promised to keep the man who needlessly, and for the sake of his own
indulgence, runs into temptation. How fearful, then, the responsibility of
those Christians who tell the reclaimed inebriate, aye who tell any man,
"You may safely tamper with the drink! You may play with this fire of
hell, and trust in God to keep you from being burnt." Alas, how do
such counsellors unwittingly play the part of Satan in his cunning
approaches to our Lord. "Cast thyself down, for it is written, He
shall give His angels charge concerning thee; and in their hands they shall
bear thee up, lest at any time thou dash thy foot against a stone."
Oh, that all our brethren and sisters would ever bear in mind the memorable
answer, "Thou shalt not tempt the Lord Thy God."
from touching it? Can any man answer for the consequences of putting a
bottle to his neighbour's mouth, be it ever such a small
one, or ever such a genteel one? God has recorded
His curse against the man who does this, and thousands of
hoary-headed parents, broken-hearted wives, and weeping,
blighted children groan their amens to the dreadful sentence! Perchance,
there are some men who can take these drinks in what they call moderation,
and suffer no visible injury; nevertheless, let that man beware who touches
that which God has cursed, for there are injuries invisible more to be
dreaded than all the plagues of Egypt!
by the eternal destinies of your children; by your concern for the glory of
your God; by your care for never-dying souls; by the love you owe
your Saviour, I beseech you BANISH THE DRINK.
Banish it from your tables, banish it from your houses, and oh! for
Christ's sake, banish it from His house. Put no longer the sacrifice
of Christ and of devils on the same altar! Banish also those who
manufacture this "distilled damnation" from your communion,
aye, from your society. Have no fellowship with those who get rich by
robbing man of his reason, woman of her virtue, and children of their
patrimony and their bread. Cease to recognise, not only as Christians, but
as men, those who fatten on the weakness, wickedness, and suffering of
their fellow-men. Hoist the flag of death over their breweries,
distilleries, and dram-shops, warning the unwary that death and
damnation lurk behind their finely-decorated bars, and run like the
lurid fires of perdition through their brightly-polished taps!
CHRISTIANS OF ENGLAND! THE TIME HAS COME WHEN TO
TRIM ON THIS DRINK QUESTION IS THE HIGHEST TREASON TO THE CAUSE OF CHRIST,
AND THE GROSSEST INHUMANITY TO SUFFERING, PERISHING MILLIONS. Tell
me no more of charity towards brewers, distillers, and publicans.
YOUR FALSE CHARITY TO THESE HAS ALREADY CONSIGNED
MILLIONS TO AN UNTIMELY HELL! Tell us not of a charity that takes
sides with the Pharisees who devour widows' houses, and leaves the
poor victims of avarice and power to groan, and suffer, and die.
have patience. We answer we have had long patience, and the times of
ignorance both God and man were willing to wink at, but we submit the time
for patience has passed. The land is flooded with light, and if these
men do not see, it is because they will not.
AND THIS IS THE CROWNING, FINISHING CONDEMNATION OF
ANY CLASS OF SINNERS, THAT, "LIGHT IS COME INTO THE WORLD, AND MEN
LOVE DARKNESS RATHER THAN LIGHT, BECAUSE THEIR DEEDS ARE EVIL," OR WE
MIGHT INTERPRET IT, BECAUSE THEIR GAINS ARE GREAT.
to be a special people unto Himself, above all the people that are upon the
face of the earth." (Deut. vii. 6.) "And ye shall be holy unto
me: for I the Lord am holy, and have severed you from other people,
that ye should be mine." (Lev. xx. 26.) "Be not conformed to
this world; but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may
prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God."
(Rom. xii. 2.) "If ye were of the world, the world would love his
own; but because ye are not of the world, therefore the world hateth
you." (John xv. 19.) "For all that is in the world, the lust of
the eyes, and the pride of life is not of the Father, but is of the
world." (1 John ii. 16.) "Wherefore come out from among them,
and be ye SEPARATE, saith the Lord, and touch
not the unclean thing: and I will receive you, and will be a Father
unto you, and ye shall be my sons and daughters, saith the Lord
Almighty." (2 Cor. vi. 17-18) "Whosoever therefore will be the
friend of the world is the enemy of God." (James iv. 4.)
ness or eternity, which "savoureth not of the things of God,"
as worldly.
important to be recorded by his holy prophet, it may be well for us to
consider how far the same signs are manifest amongst us in our day.
enough that they are congenial to their tastes, and in keeping with their
spirit?
to thee? follow thou me." "Love not the world, neither the
things of the world. If any man love the world the love of the Father is
not in him."
of our souls after creature good betray us so manifestly, and proclaim
before all the world, that the beast, the brutish life, is still so
powerful in us?"--
and parties of pleasure. The amusements and pleasures, so much prized and
esteemed by the world, now appeared to me dull and insipid--so much
so, that I wondered how I ever could have enjoyed
them.'"--
Bunyan, Whitfield, Wesley, Clarke, Barnes, Steir, Doddridge, Young, and
others. But our space prevents the calling of these witnesses. Christian
reader, let those we have called suffice.
unconverted young people to attend our penny readings, moral concerts, and
private parties where dancing, charades, and such like pastimes are
practised, we can show them that religion is not such a melancholy thing as
they have imagined, and that to become Christians need not exclude them
from such recreations, may we not hope so to induce them to attend our
sanctuaries, and thus get them converted by our more direct Christian
instrumentalities? We answer, IF you could
thus promote good by doing evil, the end would fail to justify the means,
for God says,"to obey is better than sacrifice;" but there is
the if still undisposed of. We ask, does this worldly policy
succeed? Do your evening parties, your miniature
pantomimes, dancing, and
song singing, lead to the conversion of "Our young people?" Do
the hodge-podge mixtures of Christ and Shakspeare, Paul and Dickens
of our times, serve to fill our sanctuaries, and bring the people to Jesus?
Nay, verily; the crowds who will go fast enough to hear their favourite
songs and flippant rhymes piped through the instruments of the temple on
the week night, remorselessly leave those who have stooped to pander to
their taste to chant the songs of Zion to empty pews on the Sabbath.
MENT, they must seek it in themes and things
peculiarly belonging to the god of this world, and his votaries? Has it
come to pass that Christians have so little confidence in the God of the
Bible, and the religion of Jesus, that they must seek an alliance between
Christ and the world in order to interest their children and
save them from open profligacy and vice? If so, how does this reflect on
themselves? What sort of training does it imply? Have they trained their
sons and daughters so truly in the spirit of the world, under
the garb of a religious profession, that nothing but the most sensuous
amusements of worldlings (who make any pretence to morality) will satisfy
them? Has it come to pass that the children of
CHRISTIANS must dress like
harlots,--dance, sing songs, read novels, attend concerts, where
worldly and even comic songs are sung, evoking uproarious laughter and
unseemly jests? and all this for their amusement, their
parents, and even ministers, looking on: and striving by the most
blind and wicked perversion of the word of God, to justify their
worldliness and salve their consciences? ALAS, IT
HAS COME TO THIS! "Oh that my head were waters, and mine eyes
a fountain of tears, that I might weep day and night for the slain of the
daughter of my people."
influence or power in operation in the Church; the material
and the spiritual. Jesus Christ utterly and continually
abjured the material as being of any value in His kingdom. He
systematically ignored, both by example and precept, all the influence of
mere learning--traditional
religion--wealth--position--worldly power and policy:
and steadily maintained that "His kingdom was not of this
world." He solemnly abjured all other kinds of influence or power
save that of the DIVINE, and laboured
incessantly to imbue His disciples with the conviction that nothing short
of this endowment could empower them for their work. (Acts i. 4,5; Luke
xxiv. 48, 49; John xv.)
him out by a partial conformity to his darling lusts (1 John ii. 16). The
source of their power was DIVINE; therefore
they needed no adjuncts of human policy, or of worldly expedience. They
were mighty "THROUGH GOD," and
could well dispense with the heathen poets and fashionable novelists of
their times. Their preaching was "with the demonstration
of the SPIRIT and of
POWER;" consequently, multitudes
listened, believed, and turned to the Lord.
detective of the presence of the Spirit of Jesus than the spirit which
worketh in the hearts of the children of disobedience. But He has always
been more than a match for would-be exorcists.
"Jesus I know, and Paul I know; but who are ye?"
borne, and hast patience, and for my name's sake hast laboured, and
hast not fainted." He sums up their character most carefully, giving
them the utmost credit for all the fruits of the Spirit found in them. He
remembers their labour, their patience, their hatred of evil, their zeal
for His glory in their intolerance of false teachers, their constancy in
suffering, their purity of motive, and their continuance in well doing. Not
one of their good deeds is forgotten before Him; but the brilliancy and
preciousness of the whole is marred by one defect which only he could see,
but which his love and faithfulness compelled him to reveal and to reprove.
"Nevertheless I have somewhat against thee, because thou hast left
thy first love."
which all outward works, however worthy or zealous, will not suffice. I
fear that after this manner the great majority of Christians are
backsliders. I have conversed with numbers up and down this land, and many
who have occupied prominent positions in Christian Churches, who have
confessed that they were secret backsliders, having lost much that they
once enjoyed, and walking far less carefully than they once did. Taking
these as representatives of others in similar circumstances I say, I cannot
but fear that a very large majority of professing Christians have, like
these Ephesian converts, left their first love. I have no doubt that there
are many of this class here this morning, and I desire to speak especially
to these.
No mother will succeed in begetting in her child a greater antipathy
towards any sin than she feels for it herself. Children are
the quickest of all analysts, and instinctively detect in a moment all
affectation of goodness. They judge not so much from what we say as
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And yet how common is this kind of thing in many households? I once
stayed in the house of a lady who had a fine promising boy of about
eighteen months old. He used to kick and scream violently when he found
that she was going out of the house. This, of course, was the result of
previous bad training. but what did she do? Instead of facing the
difficulty, and in a calm, firm, and affectionate manner curing her little
son of this bad habit, she used to promise every time that she would bring
him a pony that he could ride on, and the little fellow believed and
believed until he got tired, and then put down his mother, in his
baby-mind, as a liar. Of course he would not have understood such a
definition, but the deception would be burned into his soul never to be
eradicated. A child hurts himself against the table: the mother
strikes it, and says, "Oh! naughty table! you have hurt baby;"
but the child soon learns that the table was not to blame, and at the same
time learns to distrust his mother, who said it was.
A mother invites some little friends to spend an afternoon with her
children, during which games are played requiring skill and tact in the
winner. Her little boy wins several of the games, and although his brother
or one of his little friends says that he was not fair--that is, that
he cheated--she does not appear to notice it, but contents herself by
saying, "Oh, you must be good children and not quarrel;" thus
inflicting an unjust reflection on the child of honour and integrity, while
encouraging the other in the meanest and most selfish form of
sin--allowing him to rejoice over the victory won, through fraud or
sleight-of-hand. Can such a mother wonder if her boy turns
out a thief or a gambler? Well, but you say how unpleasant it would be in
such a case to go into particular
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Again, Charlie is ill, and it is needful for him to take a dose of
unpleasant medicine; but he has been so badly trained that his mother knows
he will not take it if she tells him it is nasty. So she resorts to
stratagem, and tells him that she has got something good, and thus coaxes
him to take it into his mouth, but before it is swallowed he detects the
cheat, and medicine and mother's veracity are spit out together. In
this way thousands of children are taught deception and untruth, and you
may labour in vain in after years to make them truthful and
sincere--the soil has been ruined by early abuse.
Mothers, if you want your child to be truthful and sincere you must not
only teach it to be so, you must be so yourself, and see that
your child practises what you teach. You must not wink at, or
cover up any kind of falseness or deception in him, because he is
yours. Sin should be the more awful to you because you see it
in those so dear, and those for whom you are responsible. If you have any
reason to suspect your child of insincerity or falsehood, do not rest until
you have bottomed the matter; never mind what trouble or pain it involves,
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I know some children amongst whom it is a common remark, "It is of
no use trying to hide anything from mamma, for she is sure to find it out;
so it is best to tell her at once." How much misery it would save if
it were thus in every family! Mothers, take the trouble to make your
children TRUE, and God will enable you to do
it. If you work for Him with your children, He will work
with you in them, and you shall have the joy of seeing them
grow up into Christ, their living Head in all things.
But further. To train a child in the way it should go, we must not stop
with those qualities and virtues which bear on man; but it must be trained
in the exercise of devotion and piety towards God. Of course, none but
truly Christian parents are equal to impart this kind of
training. The Holy Ghost must needs be in the heart of the mother who
undertakes to lead her child to God. The bias to evil is too strong to be
turned aside by unassisted human wisdom or strength, however great. But,
bless God! there is every encouragement to those parents who are truly His,
to hope for success in training their children for Him.
And, perhaps, the first important point in such effort is, to lead our
children to regard themselves as standing in a special relationship to God.
"The promise is to you and to your children."
And there is a sense in which the children of believers are already set
apart for Him. Many parents seem to lose sight
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Because in the case of those who have had no previous light or training,
conversion is necessarily sudden and followed by a great outward change, is
that any reason why in the case of a child carefully trained in the
"nurture and admonition of the Lord," the Holy Spirit should
not work together with such training, adapting his operations to the
capacity and requirements of the little ones who are already "of the
kingdom of heaven"? thus gradually installing them in all the
privileges, duties, and enjoyments of that kingdom. Of what advantage would
it be to train them in the "nurture and admonition of the
Lord," if He did not purpose to bless this training to their
conversion and salvation? The very terms of this injunction show the sense
in which the Holy Spirit uses them. "Nurture" means
"nursing, feeding, strengthening, developing."
"Admonition" means "reproof, caution, instruction."
Here is the order of God, firstly, the feeding and strengthening of all
that
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Of course right training includes right teaching, for though there may
be much teaching without training, there cannot be good training without
teaching. Doubtless many parents and teachers fail here for want of tact
and wisdom in their methods of instruction.
The one great rule to be observed in all teaching is to make your
lessons INTERESTING. If you cannot awaken the
interest of your child you had better give up, and school and inform
yourself till you can. I have not a doubt that many an
impetuous, earnest, high-spirited child is driven to hate the Bible
the Sanctuary, and religious exercises in general by the cold, spiritless,
insipid, canting manner in which he hears them read and performed. He knows
by instinct that this is not the way people go through things in which
their hearts are deeply concerned. He hears father and mother
and friends talk in a natural, easy, interesting manner on business and
family matters, and consequently he listens with interest, but the moment
they begin with religion he feels there is no heart in it, he
feels that it is because they MUST, not
because they LIKE. He is taught to sing
"Happy, happy Sunday, the brightest of
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Now, if you want your child to love and enjoy the Sabbath you must make
it the most INTERESTING day of the week. If
you want him to love and read his Bible you must so tell him its stories,
and elucidate its lessons as to make it
I used to take my eldest boy on my knee from the time when he was about
two years old and tell him the stories of the Old Testament in baby
language and adapted to baby comprehension, one at a time, so that he
thoroughly drank them in and also the moral lessons they were calculated to
convey. When between three and four years old I remember once going into
the nursery and finding him mounted on his rocking-horse, in a high
state of excitement, finishing the story of Joseph to his nurse and baby
brother, showing them how Joseph galloped on his live "gee gee"
when he went to fetch his father to show him to
When my family increased, it was my custom before these Sabbath lessons
to have a short lively tune. A short prayer, in which I let them all repeat
after me, sentence by sentence, asking the Lord to help us to understand
His word, and to bless our souls, and so on. After the lesson another short
prayer, and then another tune or two. After this they would
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Of course, mothers who have no one to leave with their children cannot
always stay at home, and must take them as often as is necessary for their
own edification. To those parents who are able to keep servants, I would
say, make any sacrifice to keep a really good Christian girl with your
children. I have made it a rule never to have any other as a nurse, and
have sometimes put up with great inexperience and incompetency, because it
was associated with goodness. Better take a girl whom you have to teach how
to wash a child's face, or to stitch a button on, if she is true and
sincere, than have one ever so clever who will teach your children to lie
and deceive.
But to return to the subject of teaching. Not only must you make your
teaching interesting, but also practical, in the highest degree. Your
children want to know how to comport themselves now in the
little duties, trials, and enjoyments of
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Above all things, parents should labour to counteract the natural
selfishness of the hearts of their children by showing them that they are
not to live unto themselves--that they are not to be
good, and industrious, and studious, in order that
THEY THEMSELVES may be learned, or happy, or
successful in the world. For these are the things after which the
Gentiles--the unbelieving world--seek; but that they, as
belonging to God, are to live unto Him, who hath given Himself for them,
seeking first His kingdom and righteousness. Seeking first to
glorify Him, and do good to their generation, leaving it with Him to fix
the bounds of their habitation, and to choose their inheritance for them.
Alas! how few Christian parents seem to understand this first principle of
right training--hence their anxiety to push their children on, and up,
in the learning, prin-
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Oh, mothers, don't be deceived if you want your children to be the
Lord's when they grow up, if you want your boy to withstand the
unknown temptations of the future--if you want him to come out a man
of righteous principle, integrity, and honour--superior to all the
doubleness, chicanery, and devilry of the world, you must train him to look
upon all the world's prizes as dross compared with the joy of a pure
conscience and a life of usefulness to his fellow-men. If you want
your daughter to be a true woman, willing to sacrifice and to suffer in the
interests of humanity and truth, you must inspire her
NOW with a contempt for the baubles for which
so many women barter their lives and their souls--you must teach her
that she is an independent, responsible being, whom God will call to as
severe a reckoning for the use or abuse of her talents as that of her
brother man. Day by day, as it flies, you must labour to wake up your
children's souls to
the realization of the fact that they belong to God, and that
He has sent them into the world, not to look after their own little petty,
personal interests, but to devote themselves to the promotion of
His! and that, in doing this, they will find happiness,
usefulness, and glory.--Matt. xxv. 14-16.
I would like, in conclusion, to add a few cautions against evils which I
have seen to be very common in families, and which I believe exert a very
baneful influence on the formation of character. First amongst these is an
INORDINATE ESTIMATE OF THE VALUE OF MONEY. One would think, from the
meanness and the discomfort of the ordering of many families, that money
was the household god at whose shrine every consideration of comfort,
health, friendship, and benevolence had been sacrificed. What will it cost?
is the first question that meets every suggestion of improvement in any
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Now, children soon find out the ruling principle in the family
administration, and if they see it to be covetousness or avariciousness,
parents may teach all the catalogue of Christian virtues from
morning till night, but their children will grow up selfish in the very
core of their souls. Like begets like the world over, and you show me a
household where the spirit of covetousness reigns, and I will show you
ungenerous, cunning children. "The LOVE OF
MONEY is the root of all evil" is an axiom as true as it is
neglected; and until parents, by their actions, show their children that
they deem domestic comfort and religion, the claims of Christian
hospitality, the blood and lives of their servants, the claims of the
suffering and the destitute, and the crying need of the benighted multitude
of more importance than the HOARDING OF
MONEY, they must go on reaping the reward of their covetousness in
the selfish indulgence, ungrateful neglect, and open profligacy of their
children. Ah, how many a parent, who has sacrificed all the higher and
nobler impulses of his own and his children's natures to
money-making, has had it scattered by thousands by wicked, selfish
sons?
Another great evil which I have seen even in families where there has in
the main been much good training, is the yielding in an emergency on points
of principle for the sake of expediency. Take an illustration. Here is a
family who are trained in the principles of abstinence from intoxicating
drinks, as all Christian families undoubtedly ought to be. These parents
have wisely taught their children that strong drink is an evil and bitter
thing, and that all traffic and countenance of it brings a curse; but on a
certain day, a letter comes announcing that General
So-and-so, or Captain Somebody is coming to pay a visit to
his cousin, on his return from India. Of course there is much excitement
and expectation among the junior members of the
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Another great enemy to the formation of righteous character is ambition
for what is called position in society! Some parents are continually
putting before their children future aggrandisement and fortune, as a
stimulus to industry and effort, thus holding up to their young minds this
world's prosperity and applause as the great aim and object of life.
To get to be more learned, more genteel, more wealthy than men of their own
class, so that they may be received into higher circles of worldly society.
Such parents often fail, and
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I cannot close these remarks without lifting up my voice against the
practice now so prevalent amongst respectable families, of sending children
to boarding schools before their principles are formed or their characters
developed. Parents are led away by the professedly religious character of
schools, forgetting that, even supposing the master or governess may be all
that can be desired, a School is a little world where all the
elements of unrenewed human nature are at work with as great variety,
subtlety, and power as in the great world outside. You would shrink from
exposing your child to the temptation and danger of association with
unconverted worldly men and women, why should you expose them to the
influence of children of the same character, who are not
unfrequently sent to these schools because they have become utterly
vitiated and unmanageable at home? I have listened to many a sad story of
the consequences of these school associations, and early made up my mind to
keep my children under my own influence, at least until they
had attained that maturity in grace and principle which would be an
effectual safeguard against ungodly associations. To this end I have
rejected several very tempting offers in the way of educational advantage,
and every day I am increasingly thankful for having been enabled to do so.
God has laid on you, parents, the responsibility
of training your children, and you cannot possibly delegate
that responsibility to another without endangering their highest interests
for time and for eternity.
Page 25STRONG DRINK VERSUS CHRISTIANITY.
THE subject upon which I have been requested to write a paper
is, "The Value of Temperance in connection with Religious Aggressive
Effort."
Before entering directly on the subject, I want to make two or three
preliminary remarks, and,
I. It may be well to explain that we understand religious aggressive
effort to be, that interference on the part of Christians with the
thoughts and actions of ungodly men which the Bible shows to be necessary,
in order to secure their present and eternal well-being.
We, Christians, see around us everywhere men and women under the
influence of false ideas, given up to selfish indulgences and evil
practices, which enslave their faculties and render real happiness
impossible to them, either in this life or in that which is to come. Now,
religious aggressive effort implies measures taken for their deliverance
from these evil habits, and from the bondage of Satan, and the actual
bringing of these souls into the liberty, power, and blessedness of the
family of God. It is, in short, a holy warfare, prosecuted under the
direction and power of the Holy Spirit, to bring men from darkness to
light, from the power of Satan unto God.
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II. I want to remark that the very nature of Christianity renders
this aggressive effort incumbent on all Christians. Not only are
there many passages directly enforcing this duty, but it is assumed as a
fundamental principle, underlying the whole economy of grace, that the
truly regenerate will be benevolently active for the good of others. A
desire to save the lost seems to be a divinely-inspired impulse in
the soul of every real child of God, as it were a holy instinct, in which
the disciple ever resembles his master, and the servant his lord. I am
aware that there is a great deal of professed Christianity in these days
which lacks this lineament of the Divine likeness, and makes so much of
faith that love is deemed almost superfluous. An inspired apostle, however,
declares that there is something greater even than faith, which is charity,
and though we have a faith that will remove mountains, if we have not
charity it profiteth us nothing. Truly an inoperative faith neither
profiteth its possessor nor those around him, but is only as sounding brass
or tinkling cymbal. The faith which is of the operation of the Spirit
"worketh by love," and ever leads its possessor to follow Him
who went about doing good, and who persistently taught His disciples that
self-love, self-interest, and self-indulgence must be
sacrificed to the utmost, whenever the interests of His kingdom or the
salvation of their fellow-men should demand such sacrifice.
III. I want to observe further that THE USE OF
INTOXICATING DRINKS AS A BEVERAGE IS THE CAUSE AND STRENGTH OF A VERY LARGE
PROPORTION OF THE WICKEDNESS, CRIME, VICE, AND MISERY WHICH EXIST AROUND
US. With this proposition many of us here are sadly too familiar; it
needs neither proof nor illustration; indeed, with some little
modification, it is coming to be admitted in almost all quarters, even
amongst the greatest enemies of our principles. The time is fast passing in
which there has existed a difference of opinion amongst the wise and good,
as to the real character of these drinks. The baneful
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We have no hesitation in affirming that strong drink is Satan's
chief instrumentality for keeping the masses of this country under his
power.
IV. If the foregoing propositions are correct--If Christians are
bound to aggress on the kingdom of Satan, and if strong drink constitutes
one of the mightiest forces of that kingdom, then it follows inevitably
that TO BE SUCCESSFUL IN AGGRESSIVE EFFORT
CHRISTIANS MUST DEAL WITH THE DRINK. To attempt to make war on the
enemy's territory without contemplating this gigantic force, is
kindred folly to that of France in going to war with Prussia without having
duly estimated the strategic
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I submit that there is no other way for Christians to deal with strong
drink. All other ways have been tried and have failed. The time has
come for Christians to denounce the use of intoxicating drinks as
irreligious and immoral; and God Almighty will put immortal renown
on those of His servants who are sufficiently true, and brave, and
self-sacrificing first to run the gauntlet of earth and hell in
doing this. "They shall be had in everlasting remembrance," and
counted amongst the greatest benefactors of their race.
We contend that the attempt to make what is termed the moderate use of
strong drink consistent with a profession of religion has signally and
ignominiously failed; and the common sense of mankind is turning upon those
who have made it with these most pertinent questions--How can that
which produces all this crime and misery be a good thing? and if it
be an evil thing, how can it be moderately used?
This question comes with overwhelming force to those who stand forth as
labourers for the spiritual benefit of mankind.
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But I must hasten to point out two or three particulars in which this
principle is specially valuable in connection with religious aggressive
effort.
I. ABSTINENCE IS VALUABLE TO THOSE WHO ARE CALLED
TO MAKE SUCH EFFORT--1st. As a source of
strength.
No man can deny himself, constrained by Divine love for the good of
others, without improving his own moral nature and giving increased scope
for the operation of the Divine Spirit within him. "Let us not love
in word, neither in tongue; but in deed and in truth. And hereby we know
that we are of the truth, and shall assure our hearts before
him."
2. Abstinence is valuable to the Christian labourer as a safeguard
against temptation. It is well known that a large majority of those
who become subjects for church discipline, owe their fall directly or
indirectly to drink. The man who never uses it can never fall through its
influence. He is safe thus far, because he goes not into temptation.
3. Abstinence is valuable to the labourer, because it helps to
beget a conviction of his disinterestedness in the minds of those whom he
seeks to benefit, which conviction is indispensable to his success.
Doubtless the unwillingness of religious teachers to forego their own
indulgence in the use of wine and spirits has greatly diminished their
influence, and helped largely to beget that prejudice with which great
numbers of the common people
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II. WE REMARK FURTHER THE VALUE OF ABSTINENCE TO
THOSE ON WHOM HE HAS TO AGGRESS. 1st. It is indispensable as a
pioneer in reaching the drunkard. The motives, arguments, and
persuasions of the Gospel are addressed to the reason, conscience, and
feelings of men, and, of course, presuppose a sane condition of mind.
Everybody knows that it is useless to present these to a man when
intoxicated; therefore, in the case of thousands who live in a perpetual
state of intoxication, the only chance of salvation is to rescue them from
the influence of drink. Drunkenness is a physical, as well as moral
disease, and if we would remove it, we must proceed on the same principle
as we do with the insane; we must restore the reason before we can sanctify
the heart. Some of our Christian friends object to this, and say,
"Then it is the Gospel and total abstinence." We
say emphatically, Yes, just in the same sense as in the case of a lunatic
or a man raving in a fever; it is the Gospel and the
Physician.
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If any of our friends doubt whether so many are thus perpetually under
the influence of drink, let them pay us a visit in the East of London; and,
alas! we can point them to multitudes of besotted, benighted beings, who
are never sufficiently sober to be able intelligently to comprehend the
truth, even if they could be got to listen to it. Their mental faculties
are so benumbed with the imbruting drink, that a vacant stare is often the
only response to the first attempt at arousing and reclaiming them; and all
our labourers feel that there is but little hope unless they can by some
means be kept from the drink, until reason and conscience have a chance to
operate. Thanks be to God, many of this class have been reclaimed and
transformed in connection with our mission work; but I am not acquainted
with a single instance in which the drink has not been entirely abandoned.
In our last year's report, "The Masses Reached," Mr.
Booth has selected one hundred instances, out of hundreds of a similar
character, of the power of the Gospel to save the vilest and worst of
sinners, and at least eighty of these were drunkards of the most terrible
description. Let any friends, sceptical as to the thoroughly imbruting
effects of drunkenness, read these instances. It would be difficult to
believe that man could fall so low, unless one had indisputable proof.
We would ask those who object to the use of abstinence as an
instrumentality in saving the drunkard, what plan they would suggest for
his restoration to sense and reason?
The plan hitherto adopted by many of them, we lament to say, has been
simply to leave him to his fate. While giving countenance and patronage to
the drink which has made him what he is, they have left him in his
helplessness and misery to sink into a drunkard's hell! We might ask
how it has come to pass that with such a confessedly alarming number of
drunkards in our midst, there has not been put in operation one Christian
organisation specially adapted to reach and save them! Has
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2nd. Total abstinence is valuable in separating men from those
associations and habits which prevent them hearing the Gospel. How
shall they believe except they hear? We find large numbers of people who,
though not drunkards, are so mixed up with, and hedged in by drinking
customs, that it is impossible to get at them with religious truth. The
streets and public thoroughfares are the only places where even a solitary
sentence of Divine truth can be sounded in their ears, and, alas! there are
but few Christians who attempt to catch them in this vulgar and
out-of-season fashion: consequently, tens of thousands
of them never hear at all that Word by which alone they can be saved. Now,
abstinence reaches many of these, and by separating them from old
associations, and creating a vacuum in their social life, throws them in
the way of religious teaching and influence. When a man, who has been
accustomed to spend his Sabbath evenings, as thousands do, in
pleasure-parties, tea-gardens, or in family gatherings, where
the social glass forms the principal bond of union, when such a one becomes
an abstainer, he is thrown out of his orbit, and necessarily looks round
for some way of disposing of himself. He wants somewhere to go, and
somebody with whom to associate, and in numbers of instances betakes
Himself to the House of God, because this offers the readiest way of
meeting his difficulty.
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3rd. Abstinence is a valuable ally of the Gospel in the case of
those already under its influence, because it tends to keep the intellect
clear and the conscience awake for the perception and application of Divine
truth. There is every reason to believe that vast numbers who
regularly sit under Scriptural teaching are enabled to stifle the voice of
conscience and resist the claims of God, through the exhilarating or
stupifying effects of what is termed moderate quantities of stimulating
drinks. We have spoken with numbers of people after religious services
whose breath has been laden with the fumes of wine or brandy, indicating
that sufficient has been taken during the afternoon to blunt the moral
susceptibilities and to beget a self-complacency just the reverse of
that state of mind necessary for the proper reception of Divine truth.
Satan seems to have got wiser for his malicious purposes since our Lord
uttered the parable of the sower. He does not wait now till the seed is
sown, but is, in the case of thousands, beforehand with the sower,
rendering the soul impervious to the precious seed by deadly opiates of
diabolical concoction. We believe this indirect result of drinking to be
even more widespread and ruinous than the more direct; and that in the
great day of account it will be found that multitudes in this
Gospel-enlightened land of ours were enabled to resist the most
pungent appeals of truth, to silence conscience, and effectually to resist
the strivings of the Holy Ghost, only through the influence of strong
drink.
III. TOTAL ABSTINENCE IS A VALUABLE ALLY OF THE
GOSPEL, AS A CONSERVING POWER. We must not only aggress on the
kingdom of darkness, but we must use every means to keep the spoils. When
the evil spirit is cast out we must do our utmost to keep him out, or the
last state of our convert will be
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But, further, not only is abstinence valuable, nay, indispensable, in
order to preserve those rescued out of the power of this great
destroyer, but it is equally valuable to prevent others from falling into
it. We all profess to believe that prevention is better than cure;
seeing, then, that strong drink is proved to be the most dangerous foe to
perseverance in righteousness, and the most potent cause of declension,
inconsistency, and apostasy, ought not Christians to strive, both by
example and precept, to warn the young, the weak, and the inexperienced
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But, suppose some people could take these drinks without hurting
themselves, will they dare answer for their children? Alas!
there are thousands of parents to-day in connection with the various
churches of our land, whose gray hairs are sinking in sorrow to the grave
through the intemperance of sons and daughters, who first acquired a taste
for drink by sipping out of their own glasses, never used but in
moderation! I ask these parents, I ask you, Christians, was not the
curse of God on the liquor rather than on the size of
the glass which contained it; and might not these parents have
known, if they did not, that if they sowed the east wind they must reap
the whirlwind. If time would permit, we might give illustrations here that
would almost wring tears from demons, but doubtless you are familiar with
too many already. Christian parents, save your children from this moral
pestilence; oh! as you value their happiness, their chastity, their
godliness in this life, and their felicity in the next, save them from
acquiring a taste for drink. Christian ministers, deacons, elders,
members, warn your young people that they come not within the fatal gaze of
this moral basilisk. Oh! warn them that they enter not the
outermost circle of this eddying maelstrom of perdition,
crimsoned already with the blood of myriads once as fair and pure, as
virtuous and true, as they are now.
Oh, Christians! by your peace of conscience on a dying bed;
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Tell us not of the charity that would have welded the shackles on three
millions of slaves in America yonder, rather than have disturbed the
comfort and impoverished the wealth of a few rich planters. Such charity
savoureth of the old serpent, its speech betrayeth it. Such was not the
charity of Jesus. His charity went out after the suffering multitudes,
while it consigned those who gloated on their wrongs and sorrows to their
own place, notwithstanding that they garnished the tombs of the prophets
and paid tithes of mint, anise, and cummin! But, say some of our Christian
friends, we must
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Charity, were we speaking of? O Christians! look on the multitudes who
are led as sheep to the shambles by this great destroyer. Look on
thousands, yea, tens of thousands, of your fellow-countrymen,
husbands and fathers, robbed at once of their earnings, their manhood,
their reason, and turned loose on their hapless wives and children, worse,
more unreasonable, tyrannical and savage, than the wild beasts of the
forest. Look upon thousands of poor suffering women called wives, who have
to endure all a drunkard's tyranny and fury, while working for the
children's bread, and struggling vainly to keep a home where they may
lay their heads. Look on multitudes of our youth, lured from their homes,
inspired with contempt of parental counsel, drawn into gay and immoral
societies, dragged down from comparative innocence and virtue to idleness,
debauchery, and crime!
Look on hosts of helpless, neglected children, ten times more to be
pitied than those whom the heathen mother casts into the Ganges or the
Nile; look on their half-starved, half-clad bodies, their
untaught, benighted minds and souls, and then say how long this modern
Juggernauth shall roll down your streets unchallenged--this chief of
Satan's empire sway his
spectre over this vaunted Christian land!
ARISE, CHRISTIANS, ARISE, AND FIGHT THIS FOE!
YOU, AND YOU ALONE, ARE ABLE, FOR YOUR GOD WILL FIGHT FOR YOU! OH, COME UP
TO HIS HELP AGAINST THIS MIGHTY CHAMPION OF HELL, AND HE WILT EMPOWER YOU
TO LAY HIM LOW, AND TAKE ALL HIS ARMOUR WHEREIN HE TRUSTED.
Page 38WORLDLY AMUSEMENT AND CHRISTIANITY.
WE are constantly meeting with persons in perplexity as to how
far they may participate in worldly amusements without compromising their
Christian profession. Many confess having been for years in controversy on
the subject of attending or assisting at concerts, penny readings, and
gatherings of a similar though more private and social character, and not a
few have admitted having suffered spiritual loss and declension through
being mixed up with such entertainments. On this question there seems to be
amongst the Lord's professing people a sad
indefiniteness of
view. Indeed, many appear to have no settled convictions on the subject.
Hence, we fear, arises much of the abounding worldliness, that prevails in
the Church, and hence the extinction of the demarcation line between so
many thousands of the professing Christians of our day and the ungodly
throngs around them.
We propose
briefly in this paper to
consider, First, is it lawful and secondly, is it
expedient for
CHRISTIANS either to provide or attend such
entertainments as penny readings, concerts, private theatricals, and the
like?
I.--Is it lawful? To the law and to the testimony.
What saith the Scriptures? "For thou art an holy people unto the Lord
thy God; the Lord thy God hath chosen thee
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We presume that all Christians attach SOME
meaning to such passages as these; but one says they do not apply to this
worldly custom, and another says they do not apply to that, until, as in
the case of the Mahometan pig, the whole is swallowed, and every
worldly-minded professor manages to get the piece he likes best, or
which appears most to his interest: thus the law of Christ is
frittered away, and the whole body of his professing Church given over to
the god of this world. What then is the conformity to, and
friendship with the world, which these and a host of similar passages
prohibit? In other words, what is worldliness?
We reply--1st. We take that to be worldly which professes to be so.
Neither men nor things are, as a rule, better than they profess to be.
2nd. We take that to be worldly which, in sentiment and spirit, the
children of the world love, esteem, and enjoy.
3rd. We count whatever has no reference to God, righteous-
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4th. Everything that is adverse in spirit to the dignity, gravity, and
usefulness of the Christian character we regard as worldly.
It seems to us that these propositions are so self-evident, that
no thoughtful Christian can gainsay them. Some professors seem to regard
nothing as worldly which is not absolutely devilish, such as profanity,
blasphemy, or obscenity. But the Scriptures carefully and clearly
distinguish between the two. They prohibit Christians conforming to the
world in all the habits and usages of daily life.
They are not to talk like the world, in the way of foolish
jesting, "swelling words," "insincere speech,"
&c. But, on the contrary, their conversation is to "be seasoned
with salt, meet to administer grace to the hearers." It is to be
"pure, proceeding from a good (not a doubtful) conscience." It
is to be "in heaven, from whence we look for the appearing of our
Lord Jesus Christ."
The Scriptures prohibit Christians dressing like the world.
"Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the
hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel." (1 Peter
iii. 3.) "In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest
apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety, not with braided
hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array; but which becometh women
professing godliness, with good works." (1 Tim. ii. 9, 10.)
"Moreover the Lord saith, Because the daughters of Zion
are haughty, and walk with stretched forth necks and wanton eyes, walking
and mincing as they go: therefore the Lord will smite
with a scab the crown of the head of the daughters of Zion." (Isa.
iii. 16, 17.) We commend this whole chapter to the consideration of all
whom it may concern, and we would suggest that as the Lord Jehovah regarded
the dress of those Israelitish women as a sign of their backslidden
condition, and thought it sufficiently
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The Scriptures prohibit Christians singing the songs of the world, for
they expressly enjoin that when they are merry or glad they are to sing
psalms and make melody in their heart UNTO THE LORD.
The Scriptures prohibit Christians from joining in the amusements of the
world; forbidding any fellowship with the unfruitful works of
darkness, commanding to abstain from the very appearance of evil, and
TO COME OUT FROM AMONGST THE UNGODLY AND BE
SEPARATE; and our Lord declared that his real disciples were not of
the world, even as he was not of the world.
Now in light of these Scriptures, and of the propositions we have laid
down, let us examine the character of some of the entertainments so popular
with many professing Christians. We find that it is no uncommon thing for
entertainments to be held in private drawing-rooms and in rooms
connected with churches and chapels, over which ministers and leading men
in churches preside, at which Shakespearian readings are given, with
extracts from the works of the most popular and worldly novelists, and the
same songs sung as are echoed and applauded in the public-house and
the dancing-room.
Now, viewed in the light of the Scriptures we have quoted and tried by
the propositions we have drawn from them, how do these practices strike
you, Christian reader?
1st. Are they not professedly worldly? Do they not savour
of the world, all of the world, and of the world only? Were not the authors
of the things said and sung at such entertainments thoroughly Christless
men, and some of them professed infidels?
2nd. Are not these the songs and sentiments which worldlings have always
claimed as their own? Are they not sung in their ball-rooms,
theatres, and casinoes? And is not this proof
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3rd. Such songs, recitations, and performances have no reference
whatever to God, righteousness, or eternity. God is not only "not in
all their thoughts," but he is not in any of them, therefore they
must be thoroughly worldly.
4th. The spirit of such amusements is manifestly adverse to the dignity,
gravity, and usefulness of the Christian character. What are its effects?
Lightness, foolish jesting, a false estimate of creature delights,
obtuseness to spiritual things, and frequently uproarious merriment and
godless mirth.
We put it to any Christian who has ever allowed himself to take part in
such amusements whether these are not their inevitable and bitter fruits,
and whether he has not found their spirit to be utterly antagonistic to the
spirit of Christ? We have heard many backsliders in heart attribute their
declension to mingling in such scenes of folly and frivolity, and we never
met with one whom we had reason to believe had been renewed in the spirit
of his mind who could say he could enter into them without
condemnation.
Doubtless there are thousands of professing Christians who live in
perpetual strife with their consciences and with the Holy Spirit on this
subject; and verily they have their reward. Trying to hold Christ in one
hand and the world in the other, they lose both. They have no joy in their
godless amusements, neither have they any joy in the Lord. All is darkness,
condemnation, and death. "Ye adulterers and adulteresses, know ye not
that the friendship of the world is enmity with God?"
The testimony of the Word is too explicit, and the voice of the Spirit
too clear, for any child of God to err for want of light if he will but
listen to his Divine counsellor. But, alas! too many seek to silence His
voice by vain and worldly reasoning, lowering the standard which He has
given them because somebody else does so. They do not hear him
saying, "What is that
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Not only is the testimony of the Word and of the Spirit against these
amusements, but the testimony and example of the most devoted and
intelligent Christians of all ages have been against them. The following
are a few extracts bearing on the subject:--
"There is no earthly pleasure which has not the
inseparable attendance of grief--and that following it as closely as
Jacob came after Esau. Yea, worldly delight is but a shadow; and when we
catch after it, all that we grasp is substantial sorrow
in its room. The honey should not be very delightful, when the sting is so
near."--
Alleine.
"If there be any sorceress upon earth it is Pleasure;
which so enchanteth the minds of men, and worketh the disturbance of our
peace with such secret delight, that foolish men think this want of
tranquillity happiness. She turneth man into swine with such
sweet charms, that they would not change their brutish nature for their
former reason."--
Bishop Hall.
"Consider, this is not the season that should be for
pleasure! The apostle James lays it as a great charge upon many in his
time, that they lived in pleasure on earth. This is the time to do the
great business for which we were
born."--
Ambrose.
"How often shall it be protested to the Christian world,
by men of the greatest seriousness and devotion, that it is vain to dream
of entering the kingdom of heaven hereafter, except the kingdom of heaven
enter into their souls in this life? How long shall the Son of God, who
came into the world to be the most glorious example of purity,
self-denial, and mortification--how long shall He lie by in his
word as an antiquated pattern, only cut out for the apostolic ages, and
only suited to some few morose and melancholy men? With what face can we
pretend to true religion, or a feeling acquaintance with God, and the
things of his kingdom, whilst the continual bleatings and lowings
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Shaw.
"I would, that you should use this world as not abusing
it, that you should be crucified to the world, and the world to you, that
you should declare plainly that you seek a better country, which is an
heavenly. Ah! my dear brethren, I beseech you carry it like pilgrims and
strangers, abstain from fleshly lusts which war against the soul;
FOR WHAT HAVE WE TO DO with the customs
and fashions of this world, who are strangers in it? Be contented
with travellers' lots; know you not that you are in a strange
land?"--
Joseph Alleine's
Letters.
"I would dissuade thee from unnecessary society of ungodly
men, and unprofitable companions, though they be not so apparently ungodly.
It is not only the openly profane, the swearer, the drunkard, that will
prove hurtful to us; but the dead-hearted formalists, or persons
merely civil and moral, or whose conference is empty, unsavoury, and
barren, may much divert our thoughts from heaven. As mere idleness and
forgetting God will keep a soul as certainly from heaven as a profane
licentious life; so also will useless company as surely keep our hearts
from heaven."--
Baxter.
"In speaking of the laws and limits of recreation, observe
generally, that whatever is offensive to God, whatever is injurious to
others, whatever is hurtful, whether remotely or proximately to our own
soul or body, is evil; to be avoided in ourselves and to be condemned in
others. The principles involved in the foregoing remarks will answer the
queries so frequently put--Is it right to frequent a theatre?--to
attend the ball-room?--to sit at the card table?--to
mingle indiscriminately in gay and fashionable society? The study of the
Bible quotations so largely made will furnish a reply. Read and you will
know."--
Samuel Martin.
"'I bade farewell for ever,' she says,
'to assemblies which I had visited, to plays and diversions, dancing,
unprofitable walks,
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Madame Guyon.
"I heard also that this new clergyman preached against all
my favourite diversions, such as going to plays, reading novels, attending
balls, assemblies, card tables,&c.
"I asked, 'Is it
true that he preaches against dancing?' I said I was resolved to take
the first opportunity of conversing with him, being certain I could easily
prove such amusements were not sinful. Being told what arguments he made
use of, I revolved them in my mind, fully determined if I found upon
reflection I could answer them, I would.
"I first considered if
any Scripture example could be brought, .. but found nothing there which
countenanced dancing in any measure. I then began to consider the
objections urged against it. One of them was, that as it tends to lively
and trifling mirth, so it enervates the mind, dissipates the thoughts,
weakens if not stifles serious and good impressions, and quite indisposes
the mind for prayer. I asked in my own mind, Is not this a truth?
Conscience answered in the affirmative.
After much controversy,
consideration, and prayer, she says:
"For my own part I
was conscious that it led me to dress and expenses not suited to my present
situation in life. These thoughts brought powerful convictions to my mind,
notwithstanding my desire to resist them. I could not deny that truth, in
particular, and those who habitually attend such pleasures lose all relish
for spiritual things. God is shut out of their thoughts and hearts; prayer,
if they use any, is full of wanderings, or perhaps, wholly neglected; and
death put as far as possible out of sight, lest the thought should spoil
their pleasure."--
Mrs. Rogers.
Did our space permit we could give hundreds of quotations of similar
bearing by such writers as Augustine, Thomas a'Kempis, Luther, Knox,
Howe, Leighton, Newton, Cecil, Henry, Locke,
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"As obedient children, not fashioning yourselves according to the
former lusts in your ignorance, but as He which hath called you is holy, so
ye be holy in all manner of conversation."
II. We come now to the question of expediency.
The principal arguments brought forward by Christians in favour of
providing and attending worldly amusements are--
1st. Seeing that our young people will have amusement, it
is better to provide them with that which is moral and comparatively
innocent, than to drive them to that which is positively vicious.
2nd. Seeing that we cannot get hold of the unconverted by the Gospel, it
is better to meet them half way, and try, as it were, to catch them by
guile.
These arguments look very plausible: let us honestly consider them
in the light of Scripture and actual experience. 1st. On whose behalf are
they urged? Are the young people referred to the children of Christian
parents, or the children of votaries of this world? If the latter, we reply
that Christians are nowhere taught, either directly or indirectly, that it
is any part of their duty to provide amusement for the
children of this world; nay, the direct teaching and the whole tenor of
Scripture go to prove that it is their duty to seek to alarm and convict
them. There is not a line in the whole Bible on which an argument can be
built for amusing people while yet in their sins. The
Scriptures ever represent the unconverted as under condemnation, in
imminent danger, ready to be destroyed, a state rendering them far more fit
objects for pity, concern, and earnest Christian effort than for
amusement. To keep them amused and self-satisfied is
just what Satan desires, and all the better for his purpose if he can get
it done by professed Christians.
Well, but, say some of our expediency friends, if by getting
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But supposing that in some instances worldlings are won by these means,
what of all the mischief that is done? These amusements are pleaded for on
the ground that they will save our young people from those of a vicious and
immoral character, but we contend that they are quite as likely, in many
instances, to pave the way to the vicious, as in others to
save from it. They will do this:
1st. By throwing over that which is purely sensuous and godless, and
therefore sinful, the sanctity of association with Christ and religion.
2nd. By lowering the standard of the purity and sanctity of the
Christian character.
3rd. By destroying the respect and awe with which many of the
unconverted have been accustomed to regard Christianity and Christian
Ministers.
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4th. By begetting a sense of security in sin, leading them to
say,"We cannot be so very far wrong, or these Christians would not
associate with us, and find pleasure in our amusements. There is not so
much difference between us after all." We fear that by these and
similar means, the half-awakened conscience of many a young man and
woman has been silenced, and their hearts hardened; and instead of being
won from vice, they have been driven faster into it. Alas, who can tell the
convictions that are stifled, the serious impressions that are lost, the
good resolutions that are scattered, and the heavenly aspirations that are
blasted in these religious pantomimes, these Christian-Belial
festivities! Many sad stories come out, but eternity alone will reveal
their full and awful consequences.
But the argument of expediency is not only urged on behalf of our
unconverted young people, but (O tell it not in Gath!) also on behalf of
the children of professing Christians! "What are we to do?" say
some professedly Christian parents. "Our children must have
recreation and amusement, and unless we allow them to mingle to some extent
in fashionable society, and attend such parties as you refer to, we must
needs keep them out of society altogether, and make recluses of them, for
all our Christian friends patronise such entertainments, and consider them
innocent and lawful." If this be true, we reply, that it reveals more
clearly than anything we could say, the backslidden and awful state of the
professing Church, and calls loudly for some attempt to stem the tide of
worldly conformity, while there remains a spark of spiritual life in her
midst.
Alas, and has it come to pass that there is no strictly Christian social
intercourse and enjoyment? Have the topics of our glorious Christianity
become so stale and uninteresting? Have the themes of Gospel enterprise and
individual effort lost all their inspiration? Have the songs of Zion lost
their enchanting and inspiriting influence? Has the voice of social prayer
become quite silent? Has every spark of real enthusiasm in religion gone
out, that when Christians want to find
INTEREST and
ENJOY-
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Well, I think I hear some Christian say, "What is to be
done?" Done! Let every one who has any
convictions on this subject ACT ON THEM. Half
the mischief has resulted from Christians turning away from the simple
teachings of the word in order to pander to one another; "measuring
themselves amongst themselves," instead of measuring themselves by
the standard of the Word. We have heard them say, "Well, I never felt
quite satisfied that such things were right or consistent; but then, many
far higher in Christian attainments than I am allow them; and it seems like
condemning others, and making one's self to be holier than
they." Thus the voice of individual conscience has been stifled, and
the standard gradually lowered, until Christ and Shakespeare are openly
affianced, and Paul and Dickens bracketed together as equal benefactors of
their race.
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"But what am I to do?" is the still recurring cry of some
timid Christian mother or father. "Must I keep my children out of
society altogether?" Yes, verily, if you cannot find any truly
Christian society for them. Humble yourself deeply before God for having
trained your children with worldly tastes and associations, and set
yourself, as far as possible, to remedy the evil. Get more
spirituality, more real life, and you will find your religion
astonishingly more interesting both to yourself and to your
children. "Well, but my children must have companions." Oh no,
there is no must in the case; better live without them than
have such as lead them away from God, and into friendship with
the world. If you have not yet learnt this, I fear you have never realised
your responsibility to God for your children's souls. Do you regard
your children as your own or the
Lord's?--If your own, you will train them on worldly
principles; but if the Lord's, you will surely train them for Him,
that they may serve their generation according to
HIS WILL. You have nothing to do with
consequences; it is yours to obey. God will take care of His own. Act
on your convictions of duty. If you stand alone in your
family--your circle--your church--never mind;
ACT for yourself, as you must give account
for yourself. Perhaps, if you make a beginning, somebody else will follow.
Somebody must begin--somebody must make a stand, why not
you? You say,"I am so uninfluential--so weak--and
the cross will be so heavy." All the more blessing in carrying it;
and He who chooses the weak things will bless your testimony, and use it
for His glory. Only "honour God, and He will honour you."
But I must hasten to consider the second argument urged in support of
this expediency Christianity.
"Seeing that the Gospel fails to attract our young people, it is
better to meet them half-way, and try, as it were, to catch them by
guile." We reply, 1st, Is the success of the Gospel dependent on
worldly expediency or on spiritual power? If on the former, we
can see the force of this argument; but if on the latter, it is utterly
irrelevant. There are but two kinds of
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We all know how completely Paul and his fellow apostles learnt this
lesson, and how they continually gloried in the testimony that it was
"not by might nor by power, but by the Spirit of the Lord,"
that they did all their wonderful works. While the early Christians were
true to the example and teaching of their Master, we never find them
bemoaning their lack of ability to attract or to convert the people. So
mighty was their influence, though comparatively few in number, and
insignificant in social position, that wherever they went they were said to
have "turned the world upside down," and large and flourishing
churches sprang up in all directions. THEY
did not feel the necessity for any half-way meeting place between
themselves and the world; they did not lower the tone of their
Christian morality in order to meet the corrupt and heathenish notions of
those around them; neither did they abjure their spirituality lest it
should disgust them. On the contrary, the apostles and early Christians
seem to have had the conviction that the more complete their devotion to
their Master,--the more separate from the
world,--the more truly spiritual and divine they were,--the
greater would be their influence for God, and the greater their success in
winning men to Christ. It never seems to have entered into their minds to
descend from the high vantage ground on which their Lord had placed them,
to fight the enemy with his own weapons, and to try to cast
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It was not until the primitive Christians began to admit worldly
principles of action, and to substitute the material for the spiritual,
that their influence began to wane, and their testimony to lose its power.
It was the gradual substitution of the human for the divine, the material
for the spiritual, that overspread Christendom for ages with papal darkness
and death. During that long night of error and suffering, however, God
raised up many witnesses to the sufficiency of the Holy Ghost to attract
and convert men--many making long pilgrimages, and suffering great
privations, in order to visit and converse with those endued with this
Divine Gift. And when at length the light of the Reformation broke over the
nations, this one great lesson was again engraven on the hearts of
God's chosen instruments: "It is not by might, nor by
power, but by MY SPIRIT, saith the Lord of
Hosts!" Thus, after the lapse of ages, we find the Gospel, when
preached with the old power, the same mighty instrumentality, both for
attracting the multitudes and converting the soul.
From the Reformation down to the present time, we find that wherever the
same Gospel has been preached with the same accompanying power, the same
results have followed, even when the preacher has been trammelled by a
false creed, or beset with hosts of opposing influences from earth and
hell. Where the Spirit of the Lord is, there spiritual
miracles are wrought, and wherever miracles are wrought, the people
will congregate; be it by the river-side, in the
temple, in kirk, church, chapel, theatre, meeting-house, attic, or
cellar. There is no quicker
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You will perceive, Christian reader, that we regard this plea,
"that the Gospel fails to attract," as a very suspicious one.
We ask those who urge it, in the light of the foregoing summary of facts,
to tell us, WHY IT FAILS? We have no
hesitation in saying ONLY for want of the
HOLY GHOST. The great desideratum in
connection with all our organisations, societies, churches, agencies, and
instrumentalities, is LIFE! LIFE!! LIFE!!!
The people want a LIVING GOSPEL, preached by LIVING SPIRIT-BAPTIZED
SOULS. Dare we, in the light of the past, instead of this Divine bread,
give them the stone of materialism? If so we must prepare for the
consequences.
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1. Unto the angel of the church of Ephesus write:
These things saith he that holdeth the seven stars in his right hand, who
walketh in the midst of the seven golden candlesticks;
2. I know thy
works, and thy labour, and thy patience, and how thou canst not bear them
which are evil; and thou hast tried them which say they are apostles, and
are not, and hast found them liars:
3. And hast borne, and hast
patience, and for my name's sake hast laboured and hast not
fainted.
4. Nevertheless I have somewhat against thee,
because thou hast left thy first love.
5. Remember therefore, from
whence thou art fallen, and repent, and do the first works; or else I will
come unto thee quickly, and will remove thy candlestick out of his place,
except thou repent.
AS introductory to my remarks on this passage, I want you to
observe that this is a direct message from Christ Himself to a company of
His own people in a certain state of religious experience. These Ephesians
were Christians, born into the family of God, and for a long time, and to a
great extent, had faithfully served Him. Hear what He says of them in this
second verse: "I know thy works, and thy labour, and thy
patience, and how thou canst not bear them which are evil; and thou hast
tried them which say they are apostles, and are not, and hast found them
liars: and hast
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After such a repetition of their fidelities and graces, we, in our
carnal wisdom, might have looked for a
THEREFORE, instead of a
NEVERTHELESS. We might have expected Him to
say, "Thou hast laboured
for me with much zeal, patience, and perseverance; therefore, I will excuse
and pass over thy declension in love, thy defection of heart." This
is the way in which many of God's people seem to imagine that He
regards heart unfaithfulness; but not so the Lord Himself. Notwithstanding
all their labours, sufferings, patience, and zeal, He had a nevertheless
against them, which compelled his reproof and endangered his anger.
And oh, is not this his attitude towards thousands of his people now? Is
not this message to these Ephesian Christians equally applicable to
multitudes in our day, who are serving Him with much zeal and patience; but
they have left their first love, and are, notwithstanding all their outward
professions and labour, backsliders in heart? Some of you start at the use
of such a phrase, and you say, "But these Ephesians were not
backsliders." Not in the general acceptation of the term, but in the
estimation of their Lord they were backsliders in heart. They had partially
fallen, partially gone from that whole-hearted service which once
they rendered Him, and without
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Let me entreat you, my dear friends, to open your hearts to the
reception of the truth. Forget the feeble instrumentality through which it
comes, and if it commends itself to your consciences as God's truth,
let it have its full weight upon your hearts. If you are right, it will do
you no harm to examine yourselves. It will establish you and help you
"to assure your hearts before Him." And if you are not right,
who can tell the importance of making the discovery in time, while there is
opportunity and grace offered by which you may be made right? I beseech you
be honest with yourselves and with God. There is nothing to be gained by
crying, "Peace, p